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Ms. S. E. "Gargy's" Thoughts

9/12/05 9/16/05

Before you go making snap-judgments about Simone and her lesbian storyline, perhaps there are a few things you need to take into consideration. Some of you complain that there has been no signs of Simone being a lesbian, that she had an obsessive crush on Chad (who is supposedly her half-brother) and she even dated John for like a week or two. Well, she's 22 years old and she's assuming is true love; hmmmmmmmm!!!! Sounds familiar to me, actually sounds a lot like my story. Some of you are complaining that her first girlfriend, Rae, is too old; but, some would say that about Wolfy (my best friend, my lover, my wife, and my everything).

Coming out only applies to those of you, whom are not of the gay persuasion. Matthew Shepards mom is a proud member of PFLAG (Parents, Family&Friends of Lesbians and Gay) and the HRC (Human Rights Campaign) because there's nothing she can do to bring back her son but she can do what she can to make sure others' sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, nephews, nieces, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends don't have to suffer what he did. One night he was out at a local gay bar, he was coming out when two homophobe good ole' boys beat the shit out of him and drove him out to the middle of no where and left him hog-tied to a fence post, where he finally died. Then, there's the fundamental Conservative Christians who think God hates us and we are going to burn in hell; no matter how wrong that is, they still believe it to be true. Which makes them truly dangerous; they are the ones that bomb abortion clinics thinking it'll stop abortion. Two wrongs do not make a right, but when ignorance and hatred combine they have a tendency to blind. It's sad isn't it. But, it's why it's a scary world for bisexuals, trans (whatever you want to call yourself), and homosexuals of both genders. That's why we, the out and proud, have that "I am a lesbian (or gay)!" placecard. Because we are tired of being treated as second class citizens when all we really want is EQUAL AND FAIR rights and protection underneath the law. Is that really too wrong to ask for?

We are not pedophiles and we are not out to recruit anyone. We don't get lesbian starter kits, we don't get a toaster for everyone we recruit, and we most certainly don't get to live free and without fear. Why shouldn't we be allowed to marry one another, that would be two less homos to worry about and it promotes monogamy. Why shouldn't we be allowed to adopt? It would allow a child, in desperate need of it, to be surrounded by love. Why shouldn't we be allowed to fight and die for our country? It would eliminate the "Clinger" M*A*S*H situation where many men pretend to be gay in order to get out of serving. If, we are willing to sign ourselves up under our own free-will and while in our right minds as consenting adults........then are we not willing to fight and die for our countries too!? What is up with turn us into either a joke or using us a token "gay" on TV and in movies? We are just like everyone else, we just happen to be attracted to people of the same-sex as us.

The good, the bad, and the ugly of being a lesbian-for those of you who are considering it. The sex is always great-your partner will not be limb, ladies, and she's more focused on your pleasure and not just hers. Do NOT need birth control, however, you might consider using protecting against HIV/AIDS and other STDs until you are in a more committed relationship, a minimum of 6 months. You are more then likely going to do it in more places then just the bed, all possible positions rather than just missionary.

Ladies, being in-love with another women requires knowing that she is just as emotional as you if not more, which makes arguments all that more heated and passionate; and will just learn for the sake of your love and relationship for her, to just learn to loose and say "You're right!" or "I was wrong!" but always, always say "I am sorry!". Finally, the ugly of it all-despite being more accepted then a gay male couple, you and your lady love will be the object of some straight males fantasies, with George W. Bush or anyone like him in the White House forget about getting married OR consider moving to Canada.

Now, I am not getting into the many and various types of lesbians, but just know we are without a doubt probably the most open-minded group of people you could ever want to be friends with.

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